Going to a swingers party can be a fun and exciting experience. Parties hosted at a private home will be much different than the parties hosted by clubs. If you are wondering how things differ, and what to expect, you’ve hit the right place.

Know What To Bring

Most often the hosts will include information on the invitation that tells you what, if anything, you should bring with you. It’s a good idea to pack a small bag with toiletries and towels regardless of what the invitation says. You may be asked to bring your own alcohol if it’s a BYOB party.

What To Wear

Some parties will be casual, while others may have a theme. If there is a theme, you should always do your best to dress appropriately. This not only ensures fun, it shows respect to the hosts for the time and energy they put in to planning. For parties that don’t list a theme, or say casual on the invite, be sure to wear something classy and sexy, with the more risque stuff either packed with you or under your clothing.

What To Avoid

While the swingers parties can be a lot of fun, and everyone is open minded, there are several things that are considered faux pas in the swinging world. If a bedroom door is closed, keep it that way. The occupants want their privacy. Never watch unless you’ve been invited. The hosts may have no nudity zones, respect those. Always follow all the rules the guests have set up. They are there for a reason.