Setting up a swinging party isn’t difficult. It will require more than just sending out invitations though. If you are thinking of hosting your own party, here are a few tips to consider.

Clean Up

You want your whole home to be clean and ready for activities. If you own a hot tub or pool, plan to have it used. Have it cleaned the day of or the day before the party. Be sure all the bedrooms are ready with clean sheets and bedding as well. If you won’t allow smoking in your home be sure to set up a designated area outdoors to accommodate those guests. Having bowls with extra condoms around the house is also a good idea.

Food And Libations

You don’t need to plan a full meal, but having snacks and finger foods is a nice touch. Once the festivities get rolling, people will start looking for food to replenish spent energy. If you plan on having alcohol, have a bar area set up with ice and cups. Even if you have a BYOB party, a bar area that is stocked with mixers, ice, and straws is a good idea.

Plan Some Games

Games are a great way to break the tension at any party. These will allow people to relax and get to know each other before the real fun begins. Spin the bottle, strip twister, and I’ve never are all great ice-breakers.


The invitations will set the mood for the party, and give your guests important information. Include RSVP dates, detailed directions including parking instructions, whether toiletries such as towels will be provided, and if it’s BYOB.