Hosting a swingers party is a great way to build your reputation as a member of the swinging community. If the party is a hit, you are sure to have a high turn out at future parties. If it’s boring and awkward, you may struggle in the future trying to get people to RSVP to the parties. Here are 4 tips to help make the party a success.

Plan Games

Adult games are a great way to break the ice and loosen the mood. A great party host will have some games planned to help get everyone in the mood. Think of fun games that don’t really require a lot to put together or play. Naked twister, strip poker, spin the bottle, and the classic truth or dare are always popular choices.


Hosting a theme party is also great fun. People love dressing up, and a theme swinger party gives them an excuse to. If there aren’t any major holidays close by, consider making one up. Love pirates? Have a pirate theme party. Disco themes, character themes, and other more generic themes are great for times of the year when there are no holidays close.


A nice touch is for the host to provide toiletries and clean towels. Even if you told the guests to bring their own, having small bags with sample sized shampoos, soaps, and condoms will be a cheap way to make your guests feel more at ease. Also plan for smokers to attend, and have either a room designated or an outdoor area ready.


Every great swingers party will have snacks and finger foods for guests. This gives people something to occupy their time while they wait to get together, and can help replenish energy.